The Reliable Engineer

What is Reliability?

One of the lenses through which I view my job is as a service that I provide to my immediate manager. This is different from any additional obligations that I may have to my employer.
From this lens, I want to provide such a quality of service where my manager is able to assign a task to me, and forget about it.
The extent to which I can meet this bar, is reliability.

The Magical Number Seven, Plus or Minus Two

Humans have a limited working memory capacity. In one of the most highly cited papers in psychology, cognitive psychologist George A. Miller of Harvard University’s Department of Psychology, argues that the limit is observed to be somewhere around 7 distinct stimuli.

While the exact number may vary from person to person, the fact remains that our working memory has a limit. We cannot meaningfully think about 100 things at the same time.
This limitation shows up everywhere in software engineering. This limit is the reason behind a well written function taking only a small number of parameters, or classes having only a few, closely related, member fields, and good managers having a small number of direct reports.
As a manager, to be able to effectively think about your team’s overall objective and direction, you need good lieutenants - people who can take up and own meaningful chunks, leaving you free to think about the bigger picture.
The effectiveness of a lieutenant in providing this service determines their reliability.

O Captain! My Captain!

How does one become a reliable lieutenant?
Firstly, let’s cover what not to do. The most common mistake that people make is demand to be deemed reliable - most commonly, based on their tenure at the company, or in some cases, at their previous employers. This doesn’t help their cause. Just like respect, this is something that cannot be demanded. It has to be earned.

Becoming a reliable engineer involves 3 areas of development. First and most important - your relationship with your manager. Second, your attitude or mindset, and third, your tactical day to day work. Let’s unpack these one at a time.

Your relationship with your manager should be like your relationship with your priest or psychologist. You should have an open channel of communication with them, and you should feel comfortable sharing updates about your failures, without any fear of judgement. If you don’t think you have such a relationship with your manager, you should talk to them about it and come up with a plan that works for both of you. If you think that this is infeasible or this plan is not succeeding despite your best efforts - talk to your skip manager, or get a new manager - either by switching teams or by switching employers. I can’t think of anyone I’ve met who has been succeeding at their job despite having a bad relationship with their manager.
Also, realize that this is a continuous process. Like any relationship, you’ll have to continually work on it to remain effective.

The second most important component is your own mindset. If I can summarize this in one word, it would be - ownership. The other day, I had a friend from work waiting for me to finish something at work so that we can go out for the evening. I remember him asking me, “Why do you need to do this today? Who is asking for it?” I realized that I didn’t know the answer to this question. In fact, this question would have never even occurred to me in the first place. Because I am the one asking for it!. This is the essence of ownership. When you can say that “the buck stops here”, when you know and feel that the success and failure of your task lies entirely on you 1.
Your manager will never give you tasks they feel you cannot own. It is only through demonstrating ownership and success with smaller tasks that you can progress onto bigger tasks. Start by owning implementation of functions and classes. Move up to owning modules. Over time you will start owning projects and product areas.

The Road to Success

Now that we have done the strategic foundational work, how do we plan for the day to day practical work? While this list is far from exhaustive, here are the most important tools and attributes that I have found:

Regular Status Updates

The only way your manager is going to feel comfortable about “forgetting” your project is if they feel they know the status of the project at all times. One of the easiest way of doing this is to set up regular 1:1 meetings with your manager.
While the scope of 1:1 meetings is beyond this blog post, the majority of this time will be status updates from both of you.
Your status updates can be one of three things:

  1. FYI - No action required from your manager. This is just so that your manager gets a sense of the most complex challenges you have been facing and how you have been overcoming them. This is your chance to shine!
  2. A storm is coming - There is a knotty problem that may or may not need your manager’s attention in the near future. It is extremely important that they know about this sooner rather than later. I personally consider it to be a personal failure when an escalation reaches my manager which they were not already expecting.
  3. Fire! - You need immediate help. If it’s too urgent, don’t even wait for your 1:1 and talk to your manager ASAP.

Your goal should be to be extremely proactive in this communication. If your manager has to “ask about it”, you have failed.

This will also provide you a way to track your own progress. Initially, most of your updates will be in category #2 and #3. Over time, you should see an increase in proportion in category #1 updates.

Another important observation will be the content of these updates. Initially, you would be talking about how you wrote a particular piece of code. Over time, you should see yourself talking about de-risking projects and resolving external dependencies.


People will need some information from you now and then. The sooner you provide an accurate answer, the more reliable you’ll become.

Note however that this does not involve sacrificing your work-life balance. If you get a message on a Friday evening, it is expected that you’ll respond on Monday.

Ability to say “I don’t know”

I once had the misfortune of leading an engineer in my team who never said “I don’t know”. He would rather give me a quick, responsive, but wholly inaccurate answer. Needless to say, it did nothing to increase his reliability.
Although it can be exciting to give quick answers or embarrassing to admit when you don’t know something, remember that your manager / tech lead has to use the information you provide, and will know about the accuracy of this information soon enough. Providing inaccurate, unreliable information is the most effective way of reducing your reliability.

Self Direction

This ties a bit into ownership. One of the hallmarks of a great engineer is their ability to self direct.
You should be willing to do everything to keep your task / project on track. It may involve talking to third parties or external teams or resolving some internal conflict. While it’s OK to ask your manager for help when you’re stuck but they should be able to see that you tried your best before approaching them.


I hope this was helpful. Please feel free to comment with your take on the topic.

  1. Sidenote on leadership: The success of a project belongs to your team. Failure lies on you. ↩︎

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